Be Like the Background

The "Moment;, "Here & Now", is impersonally unconditional,nothing "good or bad". It is as it is; no more or less. A tornado doesn't care if it is a crack house or a church that it demolishes.
It is how one has been programed to perceive it that makes an experience appear conditional and personal. Or when they add the sense of "My" to it.
The background of the "Moment" is like a TV set, the TV remains unaffected by the programs being projected through it, it ever just "Is" as it "is".
And we have all experienced things that once appeared "bad", but later, ends up appearing "good". There does appear to be an "Ultimate Good" but it lies beyound our judgement.